Re: Have/will you change(d)?Jun 11th, 2007
She told me that my dad used to be a sloppy in his dressing and well on his appearance actually.
He cut his hair really short like an army guy so that it's easy to take care of, he had moustache and a bit of goatee too I think, and he never tucked in his shirt or T-shirt.
Whereas my mum was rather a stylish girl, well even in her older days she is actually. So she didn't like this style of me dad's. She asked him to shave everyday, keep his hair longer, and tuck his shir/T-shirt, otherwise she wouldn't go on a date with him.
So he did and he kept this even till they got married after 5 years of dating and about 14 years of marriage till death did them apart literally.
There is this famous saying for couples who are going to get married that the guy usually doesn't expect the wife to change but she will over time and on the contrary, the woman expects the guy to change even upon entering the relationship or during, but the guy would never change. For the married members here, did you ever find yourself or your partner change between before and after marriage? Even as small as changing their fashion