Quote: Originally Posted by peapod
Its clear you have something "bugging you" so why not PM and get if off your chest. I am not the only person on the board you have been scolding either.
Scolding? Oh good grief. I call it as I see it. If that feels like 'scolding' to you, so be it.
I am not sure why it is 'clear' that I have someting 'bugging me' just because I don't happen to agree with you in this matter.
Yes, I took what you said seriously - no, LadyC, not because I don't recognize fantasy when I see it, but rather because I do recognize the possibility of all manner of lovely things, and this sounded lovely for Pea. I reacted with pleasure at the idea that you had met someone who might be fun for you, Pea, someone who might make you feel good, happy, whatever. I posted my thoughts, at which point I come to find it was just a joke for you to see how many people were stupid enough to believe it.
"Man, I can't believe the crap you can feed people and they believe it" is, I believe, how you responded to my well-meaning comments. Maybe that sort of thing is funny to you, Pea, but I think it is mean-spirited.
I reiterate, speaking my view - however unpopular or 'scolding' it might regrettably seem to you or others - is something I intend to continue doing.
In this matter, as far as I'm concerned, we have simply established certain things about each other, and for the life of me, I can't see a problem with that. As to your hope that we will keep having fun, well, I certainly intend to. Hope you do the same.