Oprah Winfrey: Goodbye & Good Riddance

Elder

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Just to provoke thought:

Not everyone sought to drool idiotically at the feet of US drama empress Oprah Winfrey. Yes, she has contributed much good in the world but her endless, bottomless need for attention prevented some of us from viewing her programme. She was the top host for cutting off her guests in mid-sentence and bringing the subject back to herself and her personal interests and projects.

Oprah's constant yo-yo dieting inspired some women to lose extra weight (and gain it back eventually) and others' to give up trying. The truth is that Winfrey had expensive personal trainers who trained her in her own home gym, home chefs, nutritionists and other well-paid folk to assist her in weight loss. However, she was unable to stop eating because she is a uncontrollable food-addict. Do you think the world grew weary of her showing off her new small size only to add 100 pounds to it after only 6 months over and over again? What kind of message did this give to children, youths and to those adults who could not afford the personal trainers, nutritionists and advisors that forced her to trim down periodically?

She knows how to make money and is completely dedicated to it which makes her a capitalist success story. Fortunately she does share some of this wealth.

I never quite knew what to think about dear Oprah for I could not watch her talk show so I suppose I am not entitled to an opinion.

According to personal accounts Oprah was raised by her grandmother on a farm for the first 6 years; after that she was raised in a few different cities with many opportunities to excel.

Here is what American Matt Philbin, blogger and newswriter wrote:

From a dirt poor farm in Mississippi to a Gold Coast Chicago penthouse, Oprah Winfrey worked hard, took risks and built a media empire. Her brand is instantly recognizable. She’s a businesswoman par excellence, and a generous philanthropist.

The end of the “Oprah Winfrey Show” this week after 25 years is cause for misty retrospectives and heartfelt celebrity tributes. It’s also cause for hoping her new OWN network dies on the vine and we never hear from her again.

Why? Because Oprah’s only-in-America success has come at the expense of American culture. Because she’s a garden variety show-biz liberal with a giant megaphone. And because a healthy society should eventually recognize emotional voyeurism and personal-pain pornography for what they are, and marginalize them.

It’s easy to forget that in the 1980s and early 1990s Oprah was, in the words of Penn State Professor Vicki Abt, the “Queen of Trash.” With its parade of freaks, miscreants and hapless victims baited and confronting each other on-camera, “The Oprah Winfrey Show” was indistinguishable from the offerings of Geraldo, Sally Jessie Rafael or Ricki Lake. Topics in those days ran from satanic worship to “families who interbreed” to “when the wife meets the other woman.”


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Retired_Can_Soldier

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Actually, I'd kill to be on her book club list.

Instant success.

Of course I haven't written anything that would make her book club list.
 

SLM

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Hmm. Emotional voyeurism. Interesting expression. I've never really thought about it, but now that I do, I think this phrase sums up exactly what turns me off with all daytime talk shows, Oprah included.
 

Retired_Can_Soldier

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Hmm. Emotional voyeurism. Interesting expression. I've never really thought about it, but now that I do, I think this phrase sums up exactly what turns me off with all daytime talk shows, Oprah included.

For me its the lack of nakedness. Well, not in Oprahs case.

Scratch that thought.
 

Elder

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I bet she's killer in bed. With best gF Gayle King

Sorry had to keep this awful rumor rolling.....

Tsk, tsk...

Hmm. Emotional voyeurism. Interesting expression. I've never really thought about it, but now that I do, I think this phrase sums up exactly what turns me off with all daytime talk shows, Oprah included.

Yes, emotional voyeurism, these 2 words describe it succinctly. Talk shows seem to be emotional feeding frenzies which are a turn-off for me as well. I do care to wallow in others' misfortunes. Oprah's protege, Dr. Phil, also does much good but the emotional pitch reaches horrendous levels. Absolutely frightening. Perhaps it is because, as Canadians, we are somewhat more reserved in our emotional display as behooves mature adults. I do not speak of repression, or suppression, but of a neutral state of being.
 

SLM

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Tsk, tsk...



Yes, emotional voyeurism, these 2 words describe it succinctly. Talk shows seem to be emotional feeding frenzies which are a turn-off for me as well. I do care to wallow in others' misfortunes. Oprah's protege, Dr. Phil, also does much good but the emotional pitch reaches horrendous levels. Absolutely frightening. Perhaps it is because, as Canadians, we are somewhat more reserved in our emotional display as behooves mature adults. I do not speak of repression, or suppression, but of a neutral state of being.
I have never understood the propensity that some people have to rush home to watch on television that which would be awkward and unpleasant to witness out in public, that is to say the private lives of other people. It does seem very voyeuristic to me. I actually find myself feeling kind of embarrassed when I have watched programs like that in the past.

But I do not know if that is a Canadian thing really, I am sure that Dr Phil, Oprah etc do fairly well in the ratings here as well. I think we consume those things as much as the Americans do, we just do not create them ourselves.
 

Cliffy

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Actually, I'd kill to be on her book club list.

Instant success.

Of course I haven't written anything that would make her book club list.
Yup! Missed my chance too. One of mine may have made it if I only knew how to get it to her. Since I don't have TV, I never watched her show. Ya snooze, ya lose.
 

shadowshiv

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So who's couch will Tom Cruise maniacally jump up and down to whilst professing his eternal love for Kathryn (don't call her Katie!) Holmes now that Oprah is gone?
 

damngrumpy

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I watched a small portion of the final show and it was like the others boring as hell.
I don't wish her ill as she is not that important in my mind. I am glad it is over
though. This was nowhere as good as the last goodbye of Mash.
 

Elder

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So who's couch will Tom Cruise maniacally jump up and down to whilst professing his eternal love for Kathryn (don't call her Katie!) Holmes now that Oprah is gone?

Ellen Degeneres? Unless he is a hidden homophobic.

I watched a small portion of the final show and it was like the others boring as hell.
I don't wish her ill as she is not that important in my mind. I am glad it is over
though. This was nowhere as good as the last goodbye of Mash.

:lol:The end of Mash was touching and we were sad to see the series end. However, it is a relief for the OW show to finally end already. I do not watch her programme and never will. I do not wish her ill either as she has many positive qualities when not obsessively, shamelessly, engaged in promoting herself. Wait a sec...her sole existence is dedicated to herself...that is how she got to the top...what am I saying?
 

Mowich

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Never watched a single show - I get more than enough angst just dealing with minor family crisis. LOL! Never understood the need some people have to air their laundry, dirty or otherwise, on TV. Years ago, I happened to watch part of a Jerry Springer show and that did it for me as far as day time talk shows.
 

karrie

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I watched a couple episodes of Oprah while starting my 'stay-at-home mom' career. The last episode I ever watched was going to explain how I, as an overweight woman, should dress at the beach. Sweet! my mom never gave me fashion advice, I'd learn a bit, right? So, I watched as Oprah's camera crews followed women around the beach, making fun of what they were wearing, and how hideous they looked.

"If you have fat arms, you really need to wear a shrug to the beach"
"If your legs are fat like this, you really ought to wear swim shorts to the beach"
"If your tummy is big like this, you'd better wear something a bit loose and billowy."

At the end of it, if you were just plain old fat... you'd better be covered up at the beach, end of story. Now, while I was nowhere near that overweight, I couldn't help but take offense. Thus ended my being a stereotypical stay at home mom. I really am too much of a tom boy to watch day time tv.
 

Elder

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Ouch! While many folk may not like to see mounds of jiggling flesh strolling down a sandy beach the fact is that there have always been those who collect pounds upon their person and none of us have the right to dictate what they should wear. It is inconceivable that such advise would be given to people. It was for your higher good to view that particular episode so you would not become hooked.

Truth is that outside of the beach, life drawing art classes and nudist colonies I prefer even the beautiful bodies to be clothed. I am so weary of being forced to witness surgically bloated mammary glands bursting out of clothing 2 sizes too small. Also, if a never see another pierced navel this would be a good thing. Even guys, of all sizes and ages, think nothing of removing their shirts in public whilst wearing only a pair of shorts. This is pretty close to naked to me and innappropriate.

Mind, I am not a prude, it is just that in the past 15 years the skimpy clothing of females just has gotten to be more offensive than entertaining. Even some of the men have confided that they are offended too as there used to be a time and place for such modes of undress such as nightclubs, private romantic trysts and such.

Most young women look like prostitutes to me...truly...I cannot tell the difference anymore. The hookers that used to wander up and down Granville street openly in the late '60s and early '70s had more fashion sense, and exposed less flesh, than the average female child, youth and woman of today.

Oh well. It is as it is. I have learned to look elsewhere.
 

Praxius

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Cripes, what is it?

3 one hour episodes.... or "Celebrations" or is it "Goodbyes" for Oprah?

Just a bunch of celebrities kissing her ass the whole time, singing songs, having a big old koom'bai'ya in her glory, going on about how great she is.

Frig, leaders of countries don't get send offs like this.... the amount of people, all the hype..... it's like what you'd remember from a Michael Jackson concert back when he was popular..... but the difference is that during a concert, they perform for you, not everybody perform to her and just spend three hours yammering on about how wonderful she is.

Cripes it's like the second coming of Jesus or something the way they go on.

It's like she's dying and nobody will ever see her again.

She has her own tv station now, with a bunch of shows she hand picked..... is anybody that dumb to not think she won't pop on from time to time?

You know, if I tossed a bunch of money around, threw presents under your seats, gave away cars to everybody watching me, sent people off on trips around the world, brought average nobody's onto my show so they'd become famous for helping some blind kid in their neighborhood to read braille, dropped a few thousand bucks of my money to some poor village in Africa that wouldn't even know what to do with that money (and would probably use it to wipe their asses)...... or just randomly picked up some book and told everybody I like it because my assistant gave me the cliff notes on what to say about it, and everybody else should read it because I'll get more money.....

..... I'd be famous, popular and loved by millions too.

Wow, what a shocker!

I'm 31 years old now.... she's been doing her show for 25 years..... I'd spent most of my life having her on the airs, either by my parents watching her show as a kid, or someone else I knew watching her show, or the news talking about her doing something, or seeing her dumb stupid face on the cover of her magazine at the grocery store...... seriously, I know it's a magazine about things she likes and wants others to pay attention to, but you'd think she could put something else on the cover of her magazine from time to time, other than her posing with the same damn smile with different clothes on.... maybe one of the authors of a book, or a bag of Lays potato chips she used to pimp out all the time, or something that's in the magazine that time.

Nope.... it's all about her, how great she is, how everyone should listen to her and what she likes and doesn't like, to listen to her speal on about God and Jesus in her subtle, yet obvious ways.....

..... and people treat her like she saved the world and did so many great things in the world that nobody else could have done.

She's just a marketing device..... she's like the embodiment of The Disney Corporation..... and if you look at her in the right light, she kind of looks like Micky.

She's a very good marketing device, mind you.... but that's it.

I'll just be glad when she's finally off the air full time and I don't have to come across commercials for her show anymore, with her hooting and hollering like a rich lunatic & her little brainless sheeple going crazy over getting a gift under their seat that they eventually have to pay the taxes on, or some other expense..... which they don't mind paying, because it's Oprah and it must be good, because she's giving it to them for free & she talked about how great it was for half an hour.

Larry Kings now gone, Soon Oprah will fade off with any luck..... all I need now is for Ray Romano to get beaten up by a few people on the street who don't "Love" him, Jerry Seinfeld to get hit by Denis Leary's car and when they ask Denis why he did it, he responds by saying "There was no point, just like his show"... and David Schwimmer to be drafted into the Marines so that he might grow a paid of balls and stop sounding like he's whining all the time when he talks......

.... and then I can sleep soundly at night.